Unlike our friends who have kids in private school, we still have two weeks (the last 10 of the 180 day requirement) left of public school in Mendham Township, New Jersey... and, even though we've collected all of London's softball trophies, we're still wrapping up after school activities like Garden State Ballet with the girls' recital next weekend. This weekend, London had a sleepover and the weather was iffy (scattered thunderstorms), so we decided to skip the beach... a nice relaxing day by the pool and in the garden (no thunderstorms so far) and a visit from Grammy tomorrow, but we won't get to the beach until the last week of June, when we'll stay down for a week until the 4th of July to celebrate Rex's birthday.
So, while we're away from the beach, our whole family is making up a "to do" list:
Dinner at Theresa's South in Bay Head;
Dinner at Mahogany Grill;
100 clams from the Crab Shack in Brick;
London and Maddie walking Peanut Butter with cockapoo pal Cashew in Centennial Park;
Baking a sand castle birthday cake for Rex; and, of course,
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Softball season in the Roxiticus Valley is almost over for London's third and fourth grade Yankee team and Maddie's first and second grade Mets team.... Maddie's team has a round robin end to their season this Saturday, and London's team has playoffs next week and a potential battle for the championship the following weekend. Rex and I agree that we're the parents who seem to be having the most fun at our daughters' softball games... since our girls just started softball this year, we don't have a three-year history of tee ball and coach pitch instructional league, so everything about softball is all new and exciting to us, while our friends all have a bit of the "been there, done that" look.
Once the season is over, we'll have to find ways of keeping softball in our lives during the off-season. London and Maddie's teenage babysitters for this summer are three softball-playing teenage sisters, so my girls may get some backyard training in the art of fast pitch. Meanwhile, Softball Rampage is looking for the funniest, most clever softball team names to win their contest. The Yankees and the Mets are hardly original, so Rex, London, Maddie and I will have to come up with some doozies... London's coach, who was born to be a softball coach, has both a great coaching style and a fun writing style in his game recaps... I'm still laughing to myself over "sleep well little Dodgers" (maybe you had to be there). So winning the Softball Rampage contest may be easy for our coach, and for you: go to the blog post for the contest and list your best offbeat softball team names in the comments section for a chance to win $200 in RampageBucks Rewards which can be spent on the Softball Rampage web site to buy softball bats, gloves, and other gear for your real-life team. I'm going with a long one: Butchers, Bakers, and Candlestickmakers... the girls on London's team can explain it to you.
Many of Maddie and London's activities in the Roxiticus Valley are winding down for the school year, and the weather is heating up this week as we head into the long Memorial Day weekend. We're looking forward to a summer of fun with Peanut Butter, our new cockapoo puppy, at our beach house in Bay Head, New Jersey and thought we'd kick off our summer celebration with Martha Reeves and the Vandellas' classic tribute to summer, "Dancing in the Street."
Calling out around the world Are you ready for a brand new beat Summer's here and the time is right For dancing in the street They're dancing in Chicago Down in New Orleans Up in New York City All we need is music, sweet music There'll be music everywhere There'll be swinging swaying records playing Dancing in the street
Oh it doesn't matter what you wear Just as long as you are there So come on ev'ry guy grab a girl Ev'rywhere around the world They'll be dancing They're dancing in the street
It's just an invitation across the nation A chance for folks to meet There'll be laughing, singing, music swinging Dancing in the street Philadelphia, PA Baltimore and D.C. now Can't forget the Motor City All we need is music, sweet music There'll be music everywhere There'll be swinging, swaying, records playing Dancing in the street
Oh it doesn't matter what you wear Just as long as you are there So come on ev'ry guy grab a girl Ev'rywhere around the world
Dancing They're dancing in the street Way down in L.A. Every day Dancing in the street
This week, Rex and I are taking London and Maddie to see Taylor Swift at the Prudential Center in Newark, New Jersey, so I'm featuring our Taylor Swift faves here and over on Roxiticus Desperate Housewives. The girls love to sing along with "You Belong With Me," and I love the tune but I'm not so sure I like the message. In fact, I frequently remind my daughters about a very well written blog post I read back in November on "Awkward Things My Mother Never Taught Me" all about how "He Doesn't Belong With You.":
"He doesn't belong with you. He's not romantically interested in you, and probably never will be, otherwise he'd be asking you out on dates, not kissing those other girls. He probably respects you and likes you as a person, but even if you put on a cheerleader outfit or high heels and cute skirt and lots of makeup, he still won't see what you want him to see. He knows you want him and that feeds his ego. That's why he makes sure to keep you in the 'friend zone.'"
"You belong with someone whose heart and butterflies flutter when he sees you. You belong with someone who only has eyes for you. You belong with someone you choose who chooses you back. You belong with someone who wouldn't string you along just to feed his ego. You belong with someone who makes you a better person and is a better person by virtue of being with you. You belong with someone who you sweep off of their feet rather than the other way around."
"He belongs with someone else not because he's a bad person or an egomaniac, but because he doesn't belong with you. He is too immature for you or anyone right now, but hopefully he'll find someone someday that sweeps him off his feet and makes him become a man. He belongs with someone who will make him a better person by virtue of being with her. He deserves the same thing you do, he's just not choosing it with you. So don't waste your time pining when you could be missing out on spending time with lots of other great guys that do meet those conditions."
You're on the phone with your girlfriend, she's upset She's going off about something that you said She doesnt get your humour like I do
I'm in the room, its a typical Tuesday night I'm listening to the kind of music she doesnt like And she'll never know your story like I do
But she wears short skirts, I wear t-shirts She's cheer captain and I'm on the bleachers Dreaming bout the day when you wake up and find That what you're lookin for has been here the whole time
If you could see that I'm the one who understands you Been here all along so why can't you see? You belong with me You belong with me
Walkin the streets with you in your worn out jeans I cant help thinking this is how it ought to be Laughing on the park bench thinkin to myself Hey isnt this easy?
And you've got a smile that could light up this whole town I havent seen it in awhile, since she brought you down You say you find I know you better than that Hey, Whatcha doing with a girl like that?
She wears high heels, I wear sneakers She's cheer captain and I'm on the bleachers Dreaming bout the day when you wake up and find That what you're looking for has been here the whole time
If you could see that I'm the one who understands you Been here all along so why can't you see? You belong with me
Standin by, waiting at your back door All this time how could you not know that? You belong with me You belong with me
Oh I remember you driving to my house in the middle of the night I'm the one who makes you laugh when you know you're about to cry I know your favorite songs and you tell me about your dreams I think I know where you belong. I think I know it's with me.
Can't you see that I'm the one who understands you? Been here all along so why can't you see? You belong with me
Standing by or waiting at your back door All this time how could you not know that You belong with me You belong with me
Have you ever thought just maybe You belong with me You belong with me
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Special thanks to Jason Buckley for this week's Music Monday choice. Last week, during a BlogExplosion Battle of the Blogs, Jason made the following music recommendation for Roxy and was dead on:
"As you are a Springsteen fan and a lover of lyrics, I implore you to check out The Hold Steady. Seriously. Besides a few scattered references to the Boss in some their lyrics, their songs tell stories and have much of the same feel, though a bit updated." So today I'd like to share with all of my Jersey Shore and Music Monday visitors, a brand new video from The Hold Steady Live at the Bowery Ballroom on April 17th, 2010...
There was that whole weird thing with the horses I think they know exactly what happened I don't think it needs any explaining I'm pretty sure I wasn't your first choice I think I was the last one remaining I wish we hadn't gone and destroyed it Cause I was thinking we could pull another weekender You've still got a bit of clairvoyance
I remember the metal bar I remember the reservoir You could say our paths had crossed before
So if it has to be a secret Then I guess that I can deal with it you and I both know it's a negative thing In the end only the girls know the whole truth
There were a couple pretty crass propositions There were some bugs in the bars There was a kid camped out by the coat check She said the theme of this party's the industrial age And you came in dressed like a train wreck
I remember the O.T.B The five-second delivery You could say our paths have crossed before
So if it has to be a secret Then I guess that I can deal with it God only knows it's not always a positive thing To see a few seconds into the future
And if you swear to keep it decent Then yeah I'll come and see you but it's not gonna be like in romantic comedies In the end I bet no one learns a lesson
guitar solo
So if it has to be a secret Then I guess that I can deal with it you and I both know it's a negative thing In the end only the girls know the whole truth
And if you swear to keep it decent Then yeah I'll come and see you but it's not gonna be like in romantic comedies In the end I bet no one learns a lesson
In the end only the girls know the whole truth In the end I bet no one learns a lesson
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This past weekend, we opened our beach house in Bay Head, NJ, including many of our favorite things: 100 clams from the Crab Shack in Brick, bike riding along East Avenue, catching up with neighbors including London and Maddie's walks with their favorite cockapoo, Cashew. We forgot to pack coffee beans, so we tried something new on Sunday Morning...we rode our bikes to Rockn'Joe in Point Pleasant Beach for coffee and breakfast sandwiches. Because of London and Maddie's new love of softball, we probably won't be back to the beach for a couple of weeks, but we're sure lookin' forward to those Summer Nights:
[Danny] Summer lovin' had me a blast
[Sandy] Summer lovin' happened so fast
[Danny] I met a girl crazy for me
[Sandy] Met a boy cute as can be
[Both] Summer days driftin' away, to uh-oh those summer nights
[Everyone] Uh Well-a well-a well-a huh
[Thunderbirds] Tell me more, tell me more
[Doody] Did you get very far?
[Pink Ladies] Tell me more, tell me more
[Marty] Like does he have a car?
[Everyone] Uh-huh uh-huh uh-huh uh-huh
[Danny] She swam by me, she got a cramp
[Sandy] He ran by me, got my suit damp
[Danny] I saved her life, she nearly drowned
[Sandy] He showed off, splashing around
[Both] Summer sun, something's begun, but uh-oh those summer nights
[Everyone] Uh well-a well-a well-a huh
[Pink Ladies] Tell me more, tell me more
[Frenchy] Was it love at first sight?
[Thunderbirds] Tell me more, tell me more
[Kenickie] Did she put up a fight?
[Everyone] Uh-huh-uh-huh-uh-huh-uh-huh
[Danny] Took her bowling in the arcade
[Sandy] We went strolling, drank lemonade
[Danny] We made out under the dock
[Sandy] We stayed out 'till ten o'clock
[Both] Summer fling, don't mean a thing, but uh-oh those summer nights
[Both] Summer heat, boy and girl meet, but uh-oh those summer nights
[Everyone] woo, woo, woo
[Pink Ladies] Tell me more, tell me more
[ Jan] How much dough did he spend?
[Thunderbirds] Tell me more, tell me more
[Sonny] Could she get me a friend?
[Sandy] It turned colder - that's where it ends
[Danny] So I told her we'd still be friends
[Sandy] Then we made our true love vow
[Danny] Wonder what she's doing now
[Both] Summer dreams ripped at the seams, bu-ut oh, those su-ummer nights....
[Everyone] Tell me more, tell me more!
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As long as the weather cooperates next weekend, after London and Maddie's softball games, we'll be headed down to Bay Head, NJ, to open our beach house. We're all excited to see our friends and get our feet into the sand, and to get us in the mood on Music Monday, here's The First Class with "Beach Baby."
Do you remember back in old L.A. (oh oh oh) When everybody drove a Chevrolet (oh oh oh) Whatever happened to the boy next door The sun-tanned crew-cut all-american male
Remember dancin' at the high school hop (oh oh oh) The dress I ruined with the soda pop (oh oh oh) I didn't recognize the girl next-door The beat up sneakers and the pony tail
Beach baby, Beach Baby give me your hand Give me somethin' that I can remember Just like before we can walk by the shore in the moonlight Beach baby, Beach baby there on the sand From July 'till the end of September Surfin' was fun, we'd be out in the sun every day
Mmmm, I never thought that it would end Oooooh oooooh, mmmm, and I was everybody's friend Ooooh ooooh Long hot days Cool Sea haze Juke box plays But now it's fading awaaaaay
We couldn't wait for graduation Day oh oh oh We took my car and drove to San Jose oh oh oh That's where you told me that you'd wear my ring I guess you don't remember anything
Beach baby, Beach Baby give me your hand (give me your hand) Give me somethin' that I can remember (give me something to remember) Just like before we can walk by the shore in the moonlight Beach baby, Beach baby there on the sand (there on the sand) From July 'till (from July) the end of September (to September) Surfin' was fun, we'd be out in the sun every day
Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Do doot, do do do doot Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Do doot, do do do doot Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Do doot, do do do doot Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Do doot, do do do doot Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Beach baby, Beach baby Do doot, do do do doot
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Over on my Roxiticus Desperate Housewives blog, I've been lamenting that it has been over nine years since Rex and I have been out to the movies on our own for "date night." It always seems like there's something better to do... this weekend is London and Maddie's Little League softball opening day, followed by dinner at our house for a couple of families... the next weekend, depending on the weather, we might head down to Bay Head to open our beach house, and we'd always prefer to go out to dinner with friends and talk and talk and talk instead of spending a couple of hours in front of the big screen without our kids.
However, coming this Friday, April 9th, 2010, is Date Night Movie starring Tina Fey (who always makes me laugh) and Steve Carell. Check out the video trailer:
Here's the plot line: a bored suburban couple go out for their weekly dinner date and find themselves thrown into a night of intrigue...breaking and entering, a classic car chase, a shootout and a showdown with an underworld boss at a strip club. While the husband and wife come out of the adventure with a few scratches and also with their ardor renewed, I have to admit it makes me wonder what will happen the first time Rex and I head out for date night at the movies. Don't be shy... leave a comment and let me know what you think might happen on our date night.
I just learned that LadyJava's amazing Music Monday meme has been running for 80 weeks... an impressive milestone. Congratulations to LJ and thanks for giving all of us the opportunity to share our songs each week. Over the past 80 Music Mondays, I've been enjoying some of my fellow bloggers' "theme weeks," so this week I thought I'd go with a Billy Joel theme with "The Entertainer" on Roxiticus Desperate Housewives and "Captain Jack" here on Roxy's Bay Head Blog.
Saturday night and you're still hangin' around Tired of living in your one horse town you'd like to find a little hole in the ground, for awhile..
So you go to the Village in your tie dyed jeans And you stare at the junkies and the closet queens It's like some pornographic magazine And you smile
(chorus)
Captain Jack will get you high tonight And take you to your special island Captain Jack will get you by tonight Just a little push, and you'll be smilin'
Oh yeah,...
Your sister's gone out, she's on a date You just sit at home and masturbate Your phone is gonna ring soon, but you just can't wait For that call
So you stand on the corner in your New English clothes and you look so polished from your hair down to your toes Ah but still your finger's gonna pick your nose After all,..
(chorus)
So you decide to take a holiday You got your tape deck and your brand new Chevrolet Ah, there ain't no place to go anyway What for?
So you got everything, ah, but nothing's cool They just found your father in the swimming pool And you guess you won't be going back to school Anymore.
(chorus)
So you play your albums, and you smoke your pot and you meet your girlfriend in the parking lot Oh but still you're aching for the things you haven't got What went wrong?
And if you can't understand why your world is so dead, why you've got to keep in style and feed your head Well you're 21 and still your mother makes your bed, And that's too long
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Loyal readers of Roxiticus Desperate Housewives and Roxy's Bay Head Blog know that Rex does all the cooking in our family, and Roxy does all the spreadsheets. When it comes to cooking, my bestest pal correctly pointed out years and years ago, "What you do isn't called cooking, Roxy... it's called heating up." For those of us who don't have Rex's extraordinary talents in the kitchen, Dinty Moore® products and hormel® chili enable us to replicate childhood favorites like Chili-mac and Easy Shepherd's Pie and create (heat up?) classic hearty meal recipes like Chili Cheese Dip and Chili and 3-Cheese Fondue. London and Maddie and all of their friends know that if it's chips and cheese and chili (my all-time favorite way to eat Hormel® chili), Roxy is probably doing the "cooking." Apparently, Roxy is not alone...Hormel, the nation’s leading chili brand, has topped nachos and filled the bowls of American families for generations, celebrating their 75th anniversary this year.
Heading into the Easter weekend, the weather is supposed to be warm and sunny, so we're planning the traditional Easter egg hunt in our Roxiticus Valley backyard on Sunday, followed by one of Rex's delicious ham dinners for Grammy (and maybe Grandmom, if she's home from rehab after her hip surgery). But Saturday is game day and Roxy's day in the kitchen (danger, beware!)....even though our brackets are busted, with both Villanova and Syracuse out of the NCAA tournament, we're still celebrating March Madness and cheering on great college basketball... and enjoying nostaligic comfort foods from Hormel® chili and Dinty Moore®. For a great collection of game time recipes, visit http://www.hormelrecipes.com/.
"The way we play tonight is what we leave behind..."
This year's March Madness NCAA tournament has been one of the wildest rollercoaster rides with the most surprises. #1 seeds Syracuse (my alma mater) and Kansas headed home early, as well as #2 seeds Villanova and Kansas State. Because of all the upsets, for the first time ever, the Elite Eight will include two teams ranked #5 (or lower).
In between college basketball games, the girls and I have been watching the DVD of High School Musical 3, which is my favorite in the HSM trilogy. Rex didn't see it with us on the big screen, so we made the DVD a gift for him on Maddie's 8th birthday.
You're allowed to mock me for choosing a hokey Disney song for this week's Music Monday, but I love this song and what it says this time of year...here with the Official 16 Minutes (Now or Never) video, Roxy's Bay Head Blog presents Zac Efron & Vanessa Hudgens as Troy Bolton & Gabriella Montez in High School Musical 3.
16, 16, 16 minutes left Better get it done 16, 16, 16 more minutes Get ready, GAME ON!
16, 16, 16 minutes left Runnin out of time (WILDCATS!) (West High) 16, 16, 16 more minutes It's on the line (WILDCATS!) 16, 16, 16 minutes left Better get it done (WILDCATS!)
16, 16, 16 more minutes Till we're number one! LET'S GO TEAM!
Gotta get it together Yeah, pull up and shoot (SCORE!) Are you ready? Are you with me?
(Team, team, team, yeah!) Shake'em with the crossover (Wildcats!) Tell me what are we here for? (To Win) Cuz' we know that we're the best team (Come on boys, come on boys, come on!)
The way we play tonight Is what we leave behind (that's right) It all comes down to right now
It's up to us (Let's go!) So what are we gonna be? T-E-A-M TEAM! Gotta work it out Turn it on
Come on!
This is the last time to get it right (Ooh) This is the last chance to make it or not (Yeah) We gotta show what we are all about (Team!) Work together
This is the last chance to make our mark (Shoot!) History will know who we are (Yeah) This is the last game so make it count It's now or never
W-I-L-D WILDCATS! You know we are W-I-L-D WILDCATS! Come on, come on! West High Knights, heey Yeah, we're doing it right, oh yeah W-I-L-D WILDCATS! Now's the time!
Gotta get it inside, down low In the paint now shoot, SCORE! We gotta work it together Gimme the ball Gimme the ball Gimme the ball
Fastbreak! Keep the ball in control Let it fly from downtown Show'em we can do it better Go, go, go Come on boys! (Wildcats!)
The way we play tonight (yeah) Is what we leave behind (that's right) It all comes down to right now It's up to us (Let's go) So what are we gonna be? T-E-A-M TEAM! Gotta work it out Turn it all Come on!
This is the last time to get it right (Ooh) This is the last chance to make it or not (Yeah) We gotta show what we are all about (Team!) Work together
This is the last chance to make our mark (Hoop!) History will know who we are (Yeah) This is the last game so make it count It's now or never
Right now I can hardly breathe Ohh, you can do it Just know that I believe And that's all I really need
Then come on! Make me strong It's time to turn it up GAME ON!
WILDCATS! Gonna tear it up GO WILDCATS! Yeah we're number one HEY WILDCATS! We're the champions GO, GO, GO, GO, GO, GO, GO TEAM! Oh! West High Knights, heey Yeah, we're putting up a fight (Wildcats!) We'll never quit it, gonna win it Let me hear you say HEY HEY HEY HEY HEY HEY
This is the last time to get it right (Ooh) This is the last chance to make it or not (Yeah) We gotta show what we are all about (Team)
Work together (Come on!)
This is the last chance to make our mark History will know who we are This is the last game so make it count It's now or never
Yeaaah!
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Rex just got off the phone with his son, Trader, who has booked the Bruce Springsteen cover band Tramps Like Us to perform in the backyard of our Bay Head, New Jersey, beach house for his 40th birthday party this summer. With the weather feeling raw and chilly going into our weekend up north in the Roxiticus Valley, it's good to be planning a summer celebration at the beach. London and Maddie are really looking forward to summer in Bay Head, getting our cockapoo puppy in June, and partying at the beach with their big brothers, niece and nephew in August.
After a rough week -- my 84-year-old mom is in the hospital after dislocating her hip for the third time in a month on Thursday and is having very complicated surgery on Wednesday -- I considered a repeat of my October "Lightning Crashes" post on my Roxiticus Desperate Housewives blog, but instead of focusing on the cycles of life, death, and growing old, I've decided to go with something light and breezy on both of my blogs.
London and Maddie have been into American Idol this season, staying up way past their bedtimes to vote for their favorites. Our entire family thinks Crystal Bowersox is likely to win it all, but Maddie has rooted for 17-year-old Katie Stevens since her audition. The judges keep telling Katie to sing something "young" and "current," but it is clear that Katie is an old soul who can't relate to Miley Cyrus, Taylor Swift, or the Jonas Brothers. We did some thinking, and came up with a few suggestions for Katie Stevens....maybe something from a Disney movie or Broadway show that would show off Katie's "big voice. Over on Roxiticus Desperate Housewives, we posted "That's How You Know" from Enchanted. Our other suggestion for Katie Stevens is to sing something young, but from another decade, such as "Hopelessly Devoted to You" by Olivia Newton-John from Grease or this week's Music Monday post on Roxy's Bay Head Blog: "It's In His Kiss (Shoop Shoop Song)"... done by Merry Clayton and Betty Everett in the 60s, we found a great video of Cher's 1990 cover from her movie, Mermaids:
Does he love me? I wanna know! How can I tell if he loves me so?
(Is it in his eyes?) Oh no! You need to see! (Is it in his eyes?) Oh no! You make believe! If you wanna know If he loves you so Its in his kiss! (That's where it is!)
(Oh yeah! Or is it in his face?) Oh no! It's just his charms! (In his warm embrace?) Oh no! That's just his arms! If you wanna know If he loves you so It's in his kiss! (That's where it is!) Oh,ooh, oh! Its in his kiss! (That's where it is!)
Oh, oh, oh, hug him! Squeeze him tight! Find out what you wanna know! If it's love, if it really is, It's there in his kiss!
(How 'bout the way he acts?) Oh no! That's not the way! You're not listenin' to all I'm sayin'! If you wanna know If he loves you so It's in his kiss! (That's where it is!) Oh, ooh, oh! Its in his kiss! (That's where it is!)
Oh, oh, oh, hug him! Squeeze him tight! Find out what you wanna know! If it's love, if it really is, It's there in his kiss!
(How 'bout the way he acts?) Oh no! That's not the way! You're not listenin' to all I'm sayin'! If you wanna know If he loves you so It's in his kiss! (That's where it is!) Oh, ooh, oh! Its in his kiss! (That's where it is!) Oh, yeah! Its in his kiss! (It's in his hiss, that's where it is!) ooh! It's in his kiss! (It's in his kiss, that's where it is!) (It's in his kiss, that's where it is!) (It's in his kiss, that's where it is!) (It's in his kiss, that's where it is!) (It's in his kiss, that's where it is!) MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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This Music Monday post is for London and Maddie, who adore the Jonas Brothers... but the inspiration for my choice was actually a firm handshake this afternoon from the teenage brother of one of Maddie's friends. As a parent of two girls, now 8 and 9, I've come to admire other parents who have raised respectful, confident teenagers...instead of the surly kind who won't look adults in the eye. Up north in the Roxiticus Valley, we have three sisters who babysit for London and Maddie, and they are all so poised and responsible, ready for college or job interviews or whatever opportunities life has to offer....same goes for the teenage brothers of a couple of London and Maddie's friends. So, while the Jonas Brothers intended this one as a mushy love song, I've chosen it to honor the cool teenagers in our lives.
If the heart is always searching, Can you ever find a home? I've been looking for that someone, I'll never make it on my own. Dreams can't take the place of loving you, There's gotta be a million reasons why it's true
When you look me in the eyes, And tell me that you love me. Everything's alright, When you're right here by my side. When you look me in the eyes, I catch a glimpse of heaven. I find my paradise, When you look me in the eyes.
How long will I be waiting, To be with you again Gonna tell you that I love you, In the best way that I can. I can't take a day without you here, You're the light that makes my darkness disappear.
When you look me in the eyes, And tell me that you love me. Everything's alright, When you're right here by my side. When you look me in the eyes, I catch a glimpse of heaven. I find my paradise, When you look me in the eyes.
More and more, I start to realize, I can reach my tomorrow, I can hold my head high, And it's all because you're by my side.
When you look me in the eyes, And tell me that you love me. Everything's alright, When you're right here by my side. When I hold you in my arms I know that it's forever I just gotta let you know I never wanna let you go
Cause when you look me in the eyes.
And tell me that you love me. Everything's alright, When you're right here by my side. When you look me in the eyes, I catch a glimpse of heaven. I find my paradise, When you look me in the eyes. Oh
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My mom dislocated her hip again yesterday (she's just fine now), so I was out driving to the hospital to give her a ride home and turned on the Sirius XM Eighties on 8 countdown for this week in 1982... Roxy's sweet sixteen year! Barry Manilow came on, singing "Somewhere Down the Road." The song takes me back to the first summer I worked at WBRW in Bridgewater, NJ... and one of these days I will write a long rambling post about what I know now that I wish I knew then about finding the right one, but in the meantime, it's time for Music Monday.
I know LadyJava is a big Barry Manilow fan, so this is probably a repeat, but here's a nice live version from the Kodak Theater (think "Hollywood Week"):
We had the right love At the wrong time Guess I always knew inside I wouldn't have you for a long time
Those dreams of yours Are shining on distant shores And if they're calling you away I have no right to make you stay But
Somewhere down the road Our roads are gonna cross again It doesn't really matter when But somewhere down the road I know that heart of yours will come to see That you belong with me
Sometimes goodbyes are not forever It doesn't matter if you're gone I still believe in us together I understand more than you think I can You have to go out on your own So you can find your way back home And
Somewhere down the road Our roads are gonna cross again It doesn't really matter when But somewhere down the road I know that heart of yours will come to see That you belong with me Letting go is just another way to say I'll always love you so
We had the right love At the wrong time Maybe we've only just begun Maybe the best is yet to come 'Cause
Somewhere down the road Our roads are gonna cross again It doesn't really matter when But somewhere down the road I know that heart of yours will come to see That you belong With me
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Rex, London, Maddie and I have been watching the Olympics over this long President's Day and Valentine's Day weekend, and the winter events reminded me of this great clip from one of my favorite Broadway shows and movies, A Chorus Line:
I'm so excited because I'm gonna go to the High School of Performing Arts! I mean, I was dying to be a serious actress. Anyway, it's the first day acting class- and we're in the auditorium and the teacher, Mr. Karp... Oh, Mr. Karp... Anyway, he puts us up on the stage with our legs around each other, one in back of the other and he says: "Okay... we're going to do improvisations. Now, you're on a bobsled. It's snowing out. And it's cold...Okay...GO!"
Ev'ry day for a week we would try to Feel the motion, feel the motion Down the hill.
Ev'ry day for a week we would try to Hear the wind rush, hear the wind rush, Feel the chill.
And I dug right down to the bottom of my soul To see what I had inside. Yes, I dug right down to the bottom of my soul And I tried, I tried.
[Spoken] And everybody's goin' "Whooooosh, whooooosh ... I feel the snow... I feel the cold... I feel the air." And Mr. Karp turns to me and he says, "Okay, Morales. What did you feel?"
[sings] And I said..."Nothing, I'm feeling nothing," And he says "Nothing Could get a girl transferred."
They all felt something, But I felt nothing Except the feeling That this bullshit was absurd!
[Spoken] But I said to myself, "Hey, it's only the first week. Maybe it's genetic. They don't have bobsleds in San Juan!"
[sings] Second week, more advanced, and we had to Be a table, be a sportscar... Ice-cream cone.
Mister Karp, he would say,"Very good, except Morales. Try, Morales, All alone."
And I dug right down to the bottom of my soul To see how an ice cream felt. Yes, I dug right down to the bottom of my soul And I tried to melt.
The kids yelled, "Nothing!" They called me "Nothing" And Karp allowed it, Which really makes me burn.
The were so helpful. They called me "Hopeless", Until I really didn't know Where else to turn.
[Spoken] And Karp kept saying, "Morales, I think you should transfer to Girl's High, You'll never be an actress, Never!" Jesus Christ!
Went to church, praying, "Santa Maria, Send me guidance, send me guidance," On my knees.
Went to church, praying, "Santa Maria, Help me feel it, help me feel it. Pretty please!"
And a voice from down at the bottom of my soul Came up to the top of my head. And the voice from down at the bottom of my soul, Here is what it said:
"This man is nothing! This course is nothing! If you want something, Go find another class.
And when you find one You'll be an actress." And I assure you that's what Fin'lly came to pass.
Six months later I heard that Karp had died. And I dug right down to the bottom of my soul... And cried. 'Cause I felt... nothing.
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It's Music Monday across the world in Malaysia, but here in New Jersey, it's still Super Bowl Sunday. Rex, London, Maddie and I are not big football fans, but London was born on Super Bowl Monday 2001 (Giants lost badly), so we always like to celebrate. We've got our hoagies and chili from a Hilltop Church Souper Bowl fundraiser for the Interfaith Food Pantry in Morristown, and we're ready for a good game. This week's Music Monday pick from Bruce Springsteen (the Seeger Sessions) will tell you who we'll be rooting for tonight.
We are traveling in the footsteps Of those who've gone before But we'll all be reunited (but if we stand reunited) On a new and sunlit shore (then a new world is in store)
Oh when the saints go marching in When the saints go marching in Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
And when the sun refuse (begins) to shine And when the sun refuse (begins) to shine Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
When the moon turns red with blood When the moon turns red with blood Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
On that hallelujah day On that hallelujah day Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
Oh when the trumpet sounds the call Oh when the trumpet sounds the call Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
Some say this world of trouble Is the only one we need But I'm waiting for that morning When the new world is revealed
When the revelation (revolution) comes When the revelation (revolution) comes Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
When the rich go out and work When the rich go out and work Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
When the air is pure and clean When the air is pure and clean Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
When we all have food to eat When we all have food to eat Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
When our leaders learn to cry When our leaders learn to cry Oh lord I want to be in that number When the saints go marching in
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So... Apple launched the iPad today, and the best headline I found came from fellow blogger Ken Armstrong's incessant Twittering: "iPad Softly to the Fridge In Search Of Beer." Runner up was "iBored." Although my husband, Rex, remains hopeful that the iPad could be a cross between his beloved Blackberry and the notebook computer he refuses to carry with him to and from the office, I'm skeptical... of course, I'm the one Rex turns to when technology goes wrong. He dumped his iPhone after a week because he couldn't stand the touch screen, and has been disappointed about being able to open and read client files (in Word, Excel, or PowerPoint) on his Blackberry. So we'll see.
There is some good news for the iPhone and iPad: millions of Citi® credit card customers in the United States can now manage their card accounts via the downloadable Citi Mobile(SM) application for the iPhone® device, and I'm guessing Rex would be able to use his shiny new iPad to access our Citi credit card accounts, since the iPad runs on the same operating system. According to Citi's Head of North America Consumer Internet & Mobile, Liza Landsman, "This application now provides our customers with anywhere, anytime access to their credit card account information, which is important for people on the go. It will help more customers to stay connected in real-time to their finances and to make informed spending decisions." If you're like Rex and me, Existing Citibank members click here to download Citi's Mobile App for the iPhone; if you don't have a Citi credit card, you can also Click here to apply for Citibank and then get started with all the benefits of mobile access to your account information: manage spending more wisely, quickly check account balances and available credit at any time with just a tap of the screen, and get details on recent transactions and the date on which your next payment is due, which can help prevent the accrual of fees from inadvertently late or missed payments.
I'll let you know if Rex gets the iPad... and speaking of Citi, I'd better make my monthly payment right now!
This week's Music Monday on Roxy's Bay Head Blog is dedicated to Rex and my husband's love affair with Salesforce.com and cloud computing...I'm sure that's not what Judy Collins had in mind, but here goes:
Rows and flows of angel hair And ice cream castles in the air And feather canyons everywhere I've looked at clouds that way
But now they only block the sun They rain and snow on everyone So many things I would have done But clouds got in my way
I've looked at clouds from both sides now From up and down, and still somehow It's cloud illusions I recall I really don't know clouds at all
Moons and Junes and Ferris wheels The dizzy dancing way you feel As every fairy tale comes real I've looked at love that way
But now it's just another show You leave 'em laughing when you go And if you care, don't let them know Don't give yourself away
I've looked at love from both sides now From give and take, and still somehow It's love's illusions I recall I really don't know love at all
Tears and fears and feeling proud To say "I love you" right out loud Dreams and schemes and circus crowds I've looked at life that way
Oh but now old friends are acting strange They shake their heads, they tell me that I've changed Well something's lost but something's gained In living every day
I've looked at life from both sides now From WIN and LOSE and still somehow It's life's illusions I recall I really don't know life at all
I've looked at life from both sides now From up and down and still somehow It's life's illusions I recall I really don't know life at all
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Even though it is a balmy 40 degrees during the "January thaw" here in the Roxiticus Valley, New Jersey, it's not even close to warm enough to think about opening our beach house. It is, however, warm enough to dream about sunny summer afternoons playing in the waves and relaxing on the beach in Bay Head with Rex, London, and Maddie... heading back to the house for my six o'clock beer, while Rex grills a steak or steams 100 clams for dinner, and London and Maddie paint seashells that they gathered during the day.
There's not a day that goes by that I'm not thankful for all that I have... good health, a loving family, and a house at the beach in Bay Head, New Jersey. Last summer, as we all struggled through the miserable economy, it was discouraging to see so many classic beach houses for sale (and not selling, and not selling, and not selling) all around town. I hope that when we open our beach house in April, we'll see signs that other families are taking advantage of the 2010 Homebuyer Tax Credits to find a home at the beach in Bay Head.
The best deal is for first-time homebuyers, or those who have not owned a home in the last three years, who can receive up to an $8,000 tax credit. Rex's son, PostBoy, and his new bride, MathGirl, took advantage of the 2009 credit to buy their dream home in Connecticut last Fall.
The first-time homebuyer tax credit was working towards economic recovery, but what the housing market and our national economy needed was an incentive for the "move-up" buyer. According to the 2009 National Association of Realtors® Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, the number of first-time home buyers rose from 41% to 47% of all home sales last year, and was the highest on record dating back to 1981. So this year, existing homeowners can benefit when they buy a new home, too: homeowners who have lived in their current home consecutively for 5 of the past 8 years can receive up to a $6,500 tax credit when purchasing a home. There may be no future extensions, so all qualified homebuyers are encouraged to act now (even though it's too cold for the beach) and have a written, binding contract by April 30, 2010 (close by June 30, 2010). The income limits are $125,000 for singles and $225,000 for married couples, with a $20,000 phase-out of the credit for both.
Visit Coldwell Banker to do your own research... you can even start a new Home Search on the site for your own house in Bay Head, NJ... hope to see you on the beach this summer!
Anybody here seen my old friend Martin? Can you tell me where he's gone? He freed a lot of people, But it seems the good they die young. I just looked 'round and he's gone.
Didn't you love the things that they stood for? Didn't they try to find some good for you and me? And we'll be free Some day soon, and it's a-gonna be one day ...
Today's Music Monday post honors Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Has anybody here seen my old friend Abraham? Can you tell me where he's gone? He freed a lot of people, But it seems the good they die young. You know, I just looked around and he's gone.
Anybody here seen my old friend John? Can you tell me where he's gone? He freed a lot of people, But it seems the good they die young. I just looked around and he's gone.
Anybody here seen my old friend Martin? Can you tell me where he's gone? He freed a lot of people, But it seems the good they die young. I just looked 'round and he's gone.
Didn't you love the things that they stood for? Didn't they try to find some good for you and me? And we'll be free Some day soon, and it's a-gonna be one day ...
Anybody here seen my old friend Bobby? Can you tell me where he's gone? I thought I saw him walkin' up over the hill, With Abraham, Martin and John.
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Way back when, the wild single Roxy traveled to Vancouver... for skiing and well, the type of thing wild single women usually travel to do. It involved a long running bet with a Vancouver lawyer over the New York Rangers and the Vancouver Canucks in the Stanley Cup playoffs.
Now that I'm married with children, however, the closest I'll get to the 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics will probably be on TV and a FREE Coca-Cola Collectible Medallion, available exclusively at Mac's Stores. Roxy (and each of you loyal Bay Head Blog readers out there) can receive one of three different (but all free, free, free) Coca-Cola Collectible Medallions with the purchase of two (2) Coca-Cola 591mL products at Mac's stores.
While I've told London and Maddie that they aren't allowed to drink soda (and ruin their teeth) until they're seventeen years old, I love all of the Coca-Cola products. Back in my college days when I didn't have to worry about my girlish figure, I drank Coke Classic. More recently, I'm a Coke Zero fan, and for a little variety Rex and I both drink Diet Coke with Lime or Diet Cherry Coke. So we won't have any trouble going back to Mac's Stores again and again to score each of the unique Olympic Medallions. This giveaway is subject to availability, so drink Coke and get yours right away.
Happy New Year! To get 2010 started with an upbeat tempo, I thought I would share this bubbly 80s fave from Amy Grant. Live from New York, it's "Good for Me"!
You like to dance and listen to the music I like to sing with the band You like your hands splashing in the ocean Well I like my feet on the sand
Does anybody have it any better? Isn't it easy to see just how well we fit together?
When I start to sing the blues You pull out my dancing shoes I think you could be so good for me You get brave when I get shy Just another reason why I think you could be so good for me, so good
You like to drive like Mario Andretti I like it taking my time But let me say wherever you are going You know it suits me just fine
Does anybody have it any better? Isn't it easy to see just how well we fit together?
When I start to sing the blues You pull out my dancing shoes I think you could be so good for me, good for me, yeah You get brave when I get shy Just another reason why I think you could be so good for me
Could be so good for me You could be so good Could be so good Could be so good for me
You get brave when I get shy Another reason why You could be so good for, good for me baby Good for me baby
When I want to sing the blues, good for me baby Oh, when I want to sing the blues Good for me baby You could be so good Good for me baby, when I want to sing the blues Good for me baby
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There are only so many New Year's Eve songs available for this week's Music Monday post... last year I had Guy Lombardo here on the Bay Head Blog and Dan Fogelberg on Roxiticus Desperate Housewives. The following video from Barry Manilow combines a Christmas Classic in honor of our troops ("I'll Be Home for Christmas") and "Another New Year's Eve." Add your own party hats, noisemakers and New Year's resolutions and we'll be all set!
Don't look so sad, it's not so bad you know. It's just another night, that's all it is, It's not the first, it's not the worst you know, We've come through all the rest, we'll get through this.
We've made mistakes, but we've made good friends too. Remember all the nights we spent with them? And all our plans, who says they can't come true? Tonight's another chance to start again.
REFRAIN It's just another New Year's Eve, Another night like all the rest. It's just another New Year's Eve, Let's make it the best. It's just another New Year's Eve, It's just another Auld Lang Syne, But when we're through this New Year You'll see, we'll be just fine.
We're not alone, we've got the world you know. And it won't let us down, just wait and see. And we'll grow old, but think how wise we'll grow. There's more you know, it's only New Year's Eve.
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